Technology: Help or hindrance?

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I am of the same opinion. I believe that the solution, however unimaginable now, will eventually shimmy it's way to the surface. A story on a similar note:

My husband is a police officer and went to a case where a 16 year old boy had his mobile phone stolen. Apparently this boy frequently used his phone to send text messages back and forth to friends so when he was required to provide a written statement as to the last known whereabouts of the phone you can imagine what it looked like. It included statements such as " I wz at the mall, nsw, an cr where i had it last". The spelling was horrible and it looked like second grade handwriting. In case you are wondering, the sentence above reads "I was at the mall, not sure where, and can't remember where I had it last". Needless to say he was asked to rewrite it and spell out all the abbreviated words to which he replied "Like how?" Maybe he needed a text message to understand that included something like "RHFA" translation: "Remove Head From Ass".

I was truly appalled at his lack of education and caught myself wondering about how rampant this actually is.
[this is good]
Yeah, some of these things can't be very good when pushed to the extremes. I don't don't think it's automatically the end of the world or anything, since every generation sometimes thinks that about the another generation (or their own) and their trends. And the world doesn't just fall apart because of any one trend (usually). You have some really good points about how unhealthy it is (or can be), though.

We read a paper about how online interactions change things for one of my classes. The paper was pretty dry (Group decision making and communication technology), but they compared CMC (computer mediated communication) with face-to-face communication and found that it "leads to delays; more explicit and outspoken advocacy; flaming; more equal participation among group members; and more extreme, unconventional or risky decisions." So there are some possible good things (maybe more people participate or shy people participate more), but there are a lot of down sides where it seems like people are much more willing to be extra aggressive or rude or other things they wouldn't dare do when face to face.

To me it's sort of the same thing that sometimes happens when people are in their cars and they feel like they're not really facing someone one-on-one. I had a friend in school in the late 80s (damn, I'm old-ish) who always thought it was sort of fun to go to thrift stores, buy weird clothes, dress up sort of like Robert Smith from The Cure. I think he did it just because he thought it was sort of funny to see peoples reactions and it was funky at the time. He would constantly get redneck-types in monster trucks driving by and yelling stuff at him as they went by. He started calling them "10-Mile Bandits" since they were totally comfortable being anonymous jerks, and they were 10 miles away by the time anything could happen. This happened pretty much every day, multiple times a day. But if he went to a mall or other places where people weren't in their cars, they might stare at him, or pretend not to stare at him, or protectively grab their kids away like he was the devil or something, but they wouldn't dare say anything (I think maybe 2 or 3 times in a couple of years people said things). To me, the Internet can be like that. People think they're anonymous and there aren't consequences, or they don't have to think about social consequences, or whatever.

Things are pretty easy to do online and it's easy to get lazy about things. And there are millions of choices. I guess it's good that you can find people who have the same exact weird likes and dislikes you have somewhere. But if you never have to learn to relate to people who are different than you and you only talk to some clique of people exactly like you online then it's not so good. It just doesn't seem all that healthy when it goes that far.

Plus sometimes I think having limited choices isn't always bad. It just becomes too hard to choose sometimes if you have too many choices. Plus sometimes with limited choices you'll end up doing something you wouldn't normally do and find out you like it, or you get forced to be creative to make something better. I'm not sure being able to choose all your interactions, all friends, and control everything in your life is 100% good.

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